This manner is very becoming and yet very rare; it really is the manner of the madzub, but one need not go as far as the madzub to find this manner; very often one finds it among friends and relatives. There may be a father, full of affection for his children, with great kindness and love, but yet without any outward expression of it. It is never expressed in a form one recognizes. One often finds this manner too among friends, who may feel great friendship and warmth but yet it is never apparent.