He who perceives this realizes, "What I have taken from another, I have lost; what I have given to another, I have gained. Whatever good I have done to another is my gain, and whatever good another has done to me is my loss." The kindness, the service, the love and sympathy that another has given are all lost when the giver is gone; it could only be there so long as he was there. But deeds of goodness, of kindness, of consideration done to another, will remain with him who does them both here and hereafter.