One might think from a practical point of view that such a person is on the losing side. He may seem to be, but he derives pleasure from it, a pleasure that cannot be compared with the pleasure of the one who exacts his share; and no one can experience this pleasure unless he has practiced this law in his own life. One awakens to the law of beneficence by being able to admire and to appreciate, by sympathy, by being grateful. The person who thinks, "I have done some good to another, I have rendered a kind service to another, I have been of great help in the life of another", cannot understand the law of beneficence. It means to do and to forget, to serve without desiring any appreciation, to love without wishing for any return, and to do kindness even if there is no recognition on the part of the other. If we look at them from the point of view of the law of reciprocity, those who do this are not unhappy, although it might seem that they should be. There is a saying that there are some who are happy in taking and others who are happy in giving, but in the case of the latter the reward is greater and they are happier in the end.