It is well to realize in what capacity one stands in considering this question, for it is more the work of the elder and superior in position to think why the younger one or the one who assists him in the work acts differently from what is expected, instead of the younger one and the one who assists to think why the one whom I assist acts differently from what I expect of him. However, whatever be one's position in connection with another in life, there is one principal thing to be remembered, that is by judging, by complaining, by criticizing, most often one turns things from bad to worse.