With all our love and affection, the one whom we love, if it happens that that soul has passed, and is going forward, it is better to help that soul to go forward; and that one can do by sending one's loving thought, helping it on to go forward. It amused me sometimes people telling me: "I have loved someone so much, that I would not like that person to go far, that I might not be able to catch him. Will he stay in the same place until I come?" It is most amusing; to detain a person - if that person was meant to be with another person, he would not have gone. It is for his good. Detaining him would be pulling him back from that progress which is the longing of every soul.