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Vol. 5, Love, Human and Divine
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4. The Moral of Love
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Selfish Love
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Vol. 5, Love, Human and Divine
4. The Moral of Love
Selfish Love
Love must be absolutely free from selfishness, otherwise it does not produce proper illumination. If the fire has no flame it cannot give light, and smoke comes out of it, which is troublesome. Such is selfish love. Whether it be for man or for God it is fruitless, for though it appears to be love for another or love for God, it is in fact love for the self. Ideas that come to the mind of a lover such as, "If you will love me I will love you, but if you do not love me I will not love you either", or "I love you as much as you love me", and all such declarations are false pretensions of love.
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